Oh my Lord, I am calling to you again.
My husband knew of a friend, a friend of his sister, named D...She had been married for 20 years to an asshole.
After her divorce,
She got involved with a guy that, I will only call MF.
At about 11:30 PM one night, we got a telephone call. We picked up our friend D., at a nearby hospital because MF had attempted to smash her head onto the concrete. I told her..."If you take him back D., he will do it again. Bloody head, and all, D., bailed him out of jail the next morning, and took him home with her.
My husband is a big person, and he told D., "If he touches you again, D., he will have to face me".
We gave MF another shot, hoping he learned his lesson.
One evening recently, D.'s teenage son made a wise-ass comment according to D. Her boyfriend, was "off his meds, and was mentally ill," and tried to strangle her very own son.
D. asked my husband if MF could stay with us a few nights while she found a new home for him.
My husband told D. and MF, that, I would never understand and accept the situation.
Yeah, the shit hit the fan.
I was traumatized with this situation with MF.
D., pretty much wrote me off.
Finally, within my heart, we invited D., and MF, over for a BBQ.
When D. and MF arrived, I basically said to MF, that we were all basically family, and I told , MF that, family doesn't hurt or hit each other. I also said that we all learned in nursery school , that you don't hurt your friends.
That monster's response was "Oh I know. It could happen again'."
Sorry, but I have experienced enough Domestic violence, n my life. I can't save you D.
